Emotions

Smile please

At the risk of laying myself open to a complete onslaught of character assasination, I've decided to come clean and admit to a recent discovery, albeit a pretty fundamental one.  Maybe it's living in a fast paced, dog eat dog metropolis like London that brings out the more serious side of my nature. It's certainly pretty easy to go round with a permanent frown whether intentional or not.  I'll admit cycling into work doesn't help, though I like to think that I'm a considerate cyclist rather than a kamikaze . But lately I have started to realise that something as basic as a smile can make all the difference to my day. I know this is basic stuff but it's funny how easy it is to forget that something so simple can actually make all the difference as we go about our daily lives. So, in recent weeks I've been making a positive effort to smile at strangers when I catch their eye and nine times out of ten they smile back at me and that feels good.

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Emotions

The friendship spirit

Despite a nascent cold (quicksmart to the medicine cabinet for vitamin c and echinacea...), I am feeling remarkably jolly and festive. This could be because snow is forecast for later this week (yay! Even the merest flurry is enough to send me into paroxysms of delight); or because Bond Street (where EL's offices are situated) has been transformed into a vision of Christmas gorgeousness (check out Beatrice's posting - aptly entitled 'Christmas JOY!' - to witness Tiffany's festive windows); or perhaps it's because I had my University girlfriends over for lunch yesterday. Between the seven of us we have clocked up three weddings, two babies, one doctorate, various hoppings around the country, and some quite impressive jobs. Now one of our members is about to hop somewhere rather more far-flung, Nairobi, to do Good Works (of the charitable, rather than the Biblical, ilk) - and we gathered to send her off in style.

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Tricky-to-buy-for males

Only 14 days until Christmas. Which means only 13 shopping days. I'd been freaking out about what to buy for several of the more random, tricky-to-buy-for men in my life (by whom I mean not nearest and dearest), until I chanced upon this new series of books The Random Book of... (insert either Robert, Andrew, Christopher, David, James, John, Matthew, Michael, Paul or Richard). Totting up at a very reasonable £9.99 (or less if you shop online - though obviously it is MUCH better to buy from an independent bookseller) it makes for a rather fabulous present, or stocking filler. Each book talks about the various "Roberts" (or whichever name you've chosen) in history and their exploits and adventures. The entries are witty, curious and completely fascinating. To whet your appetite and give an idea of what's in each book, do you know which...

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